21st preparation

Preparing for 21st birthday wasn't as easy as I thought it would be... I used to wonder and think, how hard is it to organize your own event and when you can just do what you like, making the important decisions, don't need to waste energy to explain the rationale behind why you wanted it this way.

It's all about ME! 

But.... preparing my 21st is so TIRINGGGGGGGGGG!! Feel like ranting :x

There are just too way many details to take note, and you need to take in consideration of other's religion/preferences. Example: Food. The food that I ordered have to be halal, as well as doesn't have pork and beef in it. I also must have 1-2 dishes which are spicy, as well as the food have to be enough for everyone that I'm inviting.

Sourcing around a few places, finally decided on Changi Treehouse Villa because so the raving reviews, but I failed the balloting :( By the time I wanted to book other places, it's either all unavaliable for booking or exceeded my initial budget. Because my birthday week is also holiday week for students, the prices are all jacked up and poor student like me cannot afford!!!! So I finally settled for Aranda Country Club.

Another problem that keeps me thinking is my theme, I don't want to follow the trend of casinos, due to blackjack being 21, as well as going back to the 80s/90s or even stupid theme like everyone dressing up as a character or some animal looking retarded. I wanted something simple, yet make me stand out among the rest. (Narcissistic much)

Guest list: thinking of who to invite, if only I can don't care about the social norms and invite only those that i'm close to and getting the need to invite people just because they appear in my life more frequently than others. It doesn't mean that I am close to the person, but I still have to invite him/her anyway, just because it's socially/politically right as well as it would reflect bad on me, people probably hold a grudge if I don't invite :x

Decorations: HATE DOING IT NOW. so much time and effort spend and I don't have the time to do it. It's stressing me out with all the quizes and assignment dates creeping towards me :( If only I'm an ocutopus. Need to really catch up on my studies, or else my HD this sem will be wasted!


On the good side, I get to pamper myself with hair treatment and gelish and being treated like a princess on that day. :3 And eat delicious cakes with wine/volka to make me highhhhhhh!